About this time three years ago, I wanted to abandon my choice to live and attend school two hours away from my parents. I decided I would transfer to one of the schools closer to home and live out my college days in commuter bliss. Coming home for fall break knowing that I would have to leave home again in four days was too hard, and I never wanted to go through the pain of separation again. I had everything worked out in my head.
Perhaps you are in a similar situation, feeling like school is too much. This may be the first time you have been independent or have had such a demanding course load. Perhaps your college has not turned out to be all the wonderful things you hoped it would be – the professors are not as engaged in their students’ welfare, you don’t get along with classmates as well as you would like, or your major won’t give you the training you want. You find yourself wondering, “Maybe if I was at a different school, these problems would go away.”
If you are considering transferring colleges right now, I get it. I’ve been there. Before you take the plunge and change schools, though, I encourage you to give some serious thought to a few transferring tips:
This was, I think, one of the best decisions I made as a terrified freshman. Although I wanted to get back home as soon as possible, I made the commitment to wait until the end of the spring semester before I left. I wanted to see what an entire year at school looked like. At the end of the year, I had made connections at school that I didn’t want to lose, and I really liked being a resident student.
Staying at least one year gives you a true impression of the academic and cultural climate of your school. You want to be informed before you make any life-changing decisions. Of course, if your situation is so dire that you are unable to stay a whole year, do what you need to do to improve your situation, but make sure you are making the change for the right reasons.
Don’t be tempted to start the exit process from your school without talking to anyone first. Odds are your school has systems already in place to alleviate some of the problems you’re facing without forcing you to transfer schools. Student success offices on campus are a great place to start. Wherever you go, get a second opinion on your situation. I enlisted the help of my resident assistant, my campus ministry coordinator, and at least one professor. I told them about my plan to stay one whole year and then reevaluate. They gave me emotional support and helped me consider my situation in ways my family could not. They also kept me from feeling too isolated.
Alright. You’ve given your situation some calm, rational reflection and still believe transferring is right for you. Maybe your choice to transfer schools has nothing to do with emotion; you’ve completed your degree at a community college and are ready to complete a four-year degree.
The next step is to get out there and find the school that will meet all your needs, including the ones your current school lacks.
Here are a few to-dos that will keep your search and admissions process on track:
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